Forgive me friends for I have sinned, its been about almost a month since my last post and I've seriously neglected this poor little blog. Which isn't right. This blog helped me run a marathon for the love of God! It helped me shed nearly 20 pounds and it helped me find a little confidence along the way.
So what happened?
It lost that loving feeling... whoa that loving feeling.
Actually I lost that loving feeling.
When I first started running, it was like a new shiny relationship. Interesting, unexpected, no grasp on where things might lead. Every new day was met with a little rush of excitement... Friends cheered me on, there was always new gadgets to learn about, a new tip to take in, a further milestone to reach!
Then we got into a good groove. I loved running and running loved me.
Eventually, we (me and running) got married. Partners for life - I will run forever! I do!
The running "marriage" was great at first. I knew what to expect, I knew how hard I could train before "feeling it," I knew what songs got me going, but the "kiss" began to be not quite as exciting and slowly, I've started to take the "relationship" for granted.
I'll often think to myself, "Eh, I'm not going to go as far, try as hard today. Two miles is good enough for exercise. I've already got a ring on it. I already ran a 1/2 marathon - I have nothing to prove anymore. Tomorrow I'll throw on the lipstick and heels. Today, I'll just coast."
Bad. Bad. Bad.
The honeymoon might be over but as any of us who's ever been in a long term relationship (with an actual person) knows, this is the part where the work really counts. You can only get by with complacency for so long before things start to melt away without even realizing it's happening. I need to keep challenging myself, finding ways to keep the relationship fresh and keep on going or before long my sneakers will be sleeping on the couch and I'll become a lump and wonder where it all went wrong. Or something like that.
It boils down to passion. Passion for running, for life, for love... without passion, we are merely existing and not living. Sometimes passion doesn't fall into our lap, it's up to us to make it, fake it or take it anyway we can.
You may lose the "thrill" of the first kiss but there's something to be said about the warmth that comes from the confidence, security, dedication and commitment from being in a supportive, solid relationship. Running has given me a foundation, its up to me to maintain it.
I gotta bring sexy back. So, I'm putting on some lipstick and lacing up the "heels" (or sneakers) and I'm working on saving this relationship!
XO
Jen
What do you do to re-energize your exercise programs?
7 comments:
Just found this blog randomly while searching for something else. Love this post. Fortunately everytime my running relationship has fizzled it has been reasonably brief (<1 month). The best thing to do is just get back on it... and typically, I start to find the joy again. I find myself naturally lowering my stress level and dealing better with my other relationships, when I leave all my problems and worries on the pavement. Good luck getting back with it! (I have a blog too, if you're interested... racingitoff.blogspot.com)
Thanks Lesley for the comment, I did four miles today and found some joy in breaking out of the two mile rut! - I found your blog and started following it - I need to go back later and enter the contest ;)
YAY! Welcome back Jen. Let's run! We gotta be slim and trim for our acceptance speeches! :-D
I need to get back on track too. Your blog always motivates me.
Thanks Ang :) You know that half the time I'm running, I'm envisioning myself in a hot little number, accepting our Oscar/Golden Globe/Emmy... name the major award and it's keeping me on that fricken treadmill. haha...
it's true, since you've stopped running, i've stopped running. Coincidence ... i think not.
I miss your blog posts and funny antidotes. When you would post, "it's negative 20 degrees, snowstorm, and my two year old is sick and kept me up all night but I still made it to the gym" I really had no excuse not to get my well rested butt outside to run in the perfect LA climate.
I forgot to say earlier too, I love your little characture... makes me giggle. Too funny! Congrats on those 4 miles!
Thanks Lesley! My friend Ang, had that done for me, I love it too :)
Sara, I'm going to try to be better about blogging - the full time blogging gig takes a lot out of my writing sails but this is a joy for me.
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